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Negative, Destructive & Fearful Ideas

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Negative, Destructive & Fearful Ideas. An insight into positive living, synchronicity and conscious evolution.

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Go With the Flow to Fight Negative, Destructive & Fearful Ideas

I finally found my Louise Hay “I Can Do It” 2026 Calendar. I was looking for it because I wanted to pull a message out of it for today, New Year’s Day.

Today I got this message. “I now choose to release every negative, destructive, fearful idea and thought from my mind and my life.”

Oddly, (or not so oddly) this idea had been mirrored to me at last night’s New Year’s Eve party.

I ran into a friend of mine, who I found troubling. I was negative about everything and she was positive about everything! She kind of annoyed me, as she did not share the same feelings!

Fighting You Will Cause Negative, Destructive & Fearful Ideas

Strange and negative as this sounds, I was becoming more and more negative recently. Everything was distasteful to me. Everyone got on my nerves.

Every day I wondered why I felt this way. Was this something good or bad? Was this something merited or not?

What kind of person was I turning into? A negative, complaining beast or a person who was just out of synch with who and where she was in life?

I even asked ChatGPT what kind of person wanted to be alone all the time and found most people abrasive?

ChatGPT was thorough, and supportive of me. I was told what I was describing could fit an Introverted Highly Sensitive type of person and that if I supported this properly I could heal.

Support You Will Replace Negative, Destructive & Fearful Ideas

So I did. As soon as I made the decision to support this in me, I accidentally (there are no accidents :) made another friend.

She shared with me her earlier conflicts in life, how she had in the past forced herself to fit it. As she got older she realized this was not working for her, so she just dropped the whole “act.”

This healed her life and since then has felt so much happier.

Eureka! This friend mirrored to me how I had tried to fit in my whole life! I am a Highly Sensitive and deeply Introverted kind of person. I always liked to read, be alone and in a peaceful inner state.

I had always tried to suppress this tendency in favor of the all American way. Getting out there, being social and fitting into the crowd. Rah! Rah!

The more I forced this behavior, especially as I got older, the more negative and scorn filled I became. I guess the older I got the less I was able to force myself to do anything.

Mirror You to Replace Negative, Destructive & Fearful Ideas

So, as I began to acknowledge this truth about myself, i began to support myself in many ways. I changed the social behavior I found distasteful. I accepted me.

The more I supported and accepted me, the more positive I became until last night when I ran into my more positive friend.

I was in a negative downward spiral because seating at the party had gotten mixed up and I was separated from my friends. I would have to sit alone at a table where I knew no one, a challenge for the introvert.

My friend was in a similar situation at her table, but she was accepting and positive of it.

As I sat there ready to explain to her how this was not a positive thing at all, I stopped myself. I realized at that moment, I was being taught another lesson.

I could complain and amplify the negativity or I could be more accepting of life as it flowed through me.

Consciousness Expands

I consciously made a decision to “go with the flow”. Of course, as you have suspected, this created the space for the flow to come to me.

The seating magically opened for me to move to the table where my party was, without any effort of mine, any screaming, complaining, stomping my feet or trying to fix things.

Both friends inadvertently taught me parts of this positive puzzle.

Conclusion

Choosing to accept who you are allows you to be more accepting of life as it is. The more you accept life, the happier you become. This positive resonance reflects back to you a positive outcome!

Namaste,